Assalamualaikum baby

Went for the ultrasound scan on the first official check up in PRimanora Medical Centre in TTDI..it is a new medical centre under a few doctors from Pantai Med Centre,since it is nearer to mum and Dad home in TTDI +also nearer to my workplace nanti so we opted to go there..a few options are also in mind like DSH but it is too expensive + there is only one female muslim doctor, nanti kena tunggu lama laa plaks becoz DSH practice first come first serve and i know ramai sangat nak opted for Dr Maziah at DSH..well, our gynae is Dato' Dr Norashikin Mokhtar..a very -very friendly doctor indeed and explain in details..the ultrasound machine pun canggih juga,lain dari biasa...:-PPP..

This is the baby at approximately 8@ 9 weeks..cannot measure in detail yet since baby too small..alhamdulillah baby is ok..masa buat ultrasound scan dapat dengar heartbeat dia..

anyway we just went back to BM yesterday after our checkup..Najla tinggal di KL bersama Atuk and Neneknya..dia rindu ngan atuk nenek jadi kasi chan laa duk lama sket but we already start to miss her already...huhuhu...:-PPPPPP anyway will be picking her up insyaallah during Raya Haji nanti..

Atypical morning sickness

My body was sooo tired...this current pregnancy i would say are rather different..kali nie bila time cuti asyik rasa nak tido aje..mmg letih sangat...morning sickness slightly bad i would say...mostly at night..i did not vomit but i do feel dizzy..had to be extra carefull when at work bcoz sometimes feels like pening -pening lalat...

the transfer to KL had yet to be confirm..so buat masa nie wait ajelaa for the official letter to come..am already becoming impatient i would say becoz if it is very -very last minute then will be quite difficult for me to kemas my stuff tambahan pula with my current sickness..hopefully will get the good news ASAP..

we did not set any appointment to a specific gynaecologist..just went to a women's clinic in SP first to get an ultrasound scan and some vitamins+folic acid+ubat muntah...the scan shows the baby is fine,inside the pregnancy sac..jantung dah berdegup dah at 8 weeks,alhamdulillah..would like to have the proper check up in KL nanti..

Funny Little Najla

U can learn new words from Najla..we always told her not to disturb orang tengah sembahyang and jangan buat bising..she likes to open the ikatan telekung when tgh sembahyang especially time duduk tahyat awal/tahyat akhir..she knows how to open it sekuat mana yg kita ikat pun..yg slalu jadi mangsa nenek dia laa..

when she saw org tengah solat she will sayyyy shhhhhh jangan kacau orang tengah MESAYANG..hahah..instead of sembahyang..


lagi satu she likes to jump from sofa to lantai, we always said to her not to do that sbb nanti terlentang nanti..or sometimes her auties will say to her nanti tertonggeng nanti baru padan muka..so she captured those two words terlentang and tertonggeng so now before she wants to "jump" dari sofa ke lantai she will ask first,,,Ummi tak leh lompat kan dari sofa?,,nanti najla TERLONTENG...( combination of terlentang dan tertonggeng..)hihihih

Now she started to become very jelous to the "baby" inside the womb..nie yg payah sket nie...every night she won't let Abah sleep with anyone else except with her or she will cry..when we said haaa nanti ada adik abah kena tdo dengan adik laks..she will cry even louder and said adik tak boleh tido dengan abah..nie najla punya abah...huhuhu and dia akan merajuk if we start talking or asking about the baby..

We're expecting

Alhamdulillah...insyaallah jika diizinkan ALLAH our family members will be expanding..we will be expecting a new baby insyaallah in June or July 2009 and Najla is going to be a big sista..alhamdulillah syukur..doa kami moga dikurniakan rezeki anak lagi di makbulkan ALLAH..moga segala-galanya akan bertambah lancar for the coming 9 months..moga ALLAH pelihara "anak kecil" kami dan moga ALLAH permudahkan segala-galanya utk kami sekeluarga..

Down with infection

Najla not feeling well for the past 4 days..down with infection which causes demam+batuk+selsema..had brought her to see dr,she was given antibiotics..still not feeling well, dia tak da suara lagi tapi still nak jerit-jerit,skali keluar suara rockkkk ...hahaha..

hopefully she is getting much better laa in this few days...

When Najla "beraya" in KL -last minute

Last Minute on Thursday evening had to go to KL to attend a meeting on Fri morning at Jusco Taman Equine, Serdang and also my confirmation interview at Jusco HQ Taman Maluri..since Shahrir also had to go to KL too as he had received a call from pejabat Tanah KL regarding his arwah ayah harta pusaka..since kebetulan my MIL was in KL for a "short break" at her siblings house, we figure as well since we are coming down to KL atas urusan we will pick up mak and also my uncle back to SP..

so we packed our things, bring all the important documents and off we go on Thursday night after maghrib..arrive in KL around 1.30am..

on Fri morning attended to meeting and in the evening rush to Taman Maluri for the confirmation interview..alamdulillah dah confirm so my benefit like AL,rebates for purchases in Jusco,my medical and dental benefit, Shahrir and Najla's medical and dental benefit( yes they covered spouse and anak as well ) will start berkuat kuasa..also discuss with my boss and HR personnel regarding my boss request for me to be transfer to Jusco Bandar Utama(BU)..according to my boss it is almost 98% confirm
but anyway i will be in BU starting from next month..since we are in KL also have already discuss with mum and dad once Shahrir settle down in KL we will stay at Denai Alam..so we will have to start "hunting" for the stuff like langsir/furnitures for our new home..
plan utk buat sikit demi sikit laa dulu depends on our $$$$ heheh..

b4 going back yesterday morning we went to Aunty Rokiah's house to visit Kak Fifi & co,and Mimi & co,aunty Rokiah & Uncle Fuad..dapatlaa jumpakan Najla with Adam+ Farah b4 kak fifi balik on Monday..Adam very -very "reserved"..always clinging kat mummh dia,kesian mummy dia tak leh gerak..Farah more socialize..mula -mula malu nak kawan dgn Najla..perhaps bcoz jarang -jarang skali jumpa.. najla also kedekut sikit dapat aje mainan diorang dia terus main tak nak share dgn siapa -siapa including baby Eusoff...hahaha..

lama -lama bila time nak balik tue barulaa Najla start berkawan dgn Farah..itupun after Kak Fifi keluarkan bubbles for them to play outside..so the girls happily playing the bubbles outside together with Eusoff..:-))).. i guess mmg girls is more socialize and easy to make friends..






Farah and Najla having a great time outdoor


at 10am we really have to make a move since we have to pick up mak and uncle at Gombak..Najla and Farah really communicate well..masa nak balik siap ajak Farah naik kereta utk tgk DVD Alif Ba Ta sama -sama..hehehe..

to Kak Fifi, thank u very much for the bubbles,buku sticker and also duit raya for Najla..Bon Voyage have a safe journey home..hopefully will meet u again nanti insyaallah..and to Mimi thank u also for the duit raya and mercun..(hehehe..kitorang dah belasah main mercun malam tadi bila sampai aje kat rumah...:-P...best giler..yg terlampau excited main Shahrir laa..:-PPPP..)


yang paling excited = Abah




yang paling penakut = najla..hihihi

Peluang yang tidak disangka-sangka

Remeber i wrote about the last post regarding should we move to KL?..Well today tak disangka -sangka my boss from HQ wanted me to move back to KL and promote me to be a Shop Manager in Jusco One Utama..he wanted me to be there by 21st Nov 2008..alamak cepatnye..tak sampai sebulan..for sure i wanted to accept it as it is the opportunity for me to be a line Manager..

dapat je berita cepat -cepat discuss with Shahrir regarding this..he totally agree is the best opportunity for me..further more Jusco will pay for the "yuran perpindahan" from Penang to KL..


with this we will be officially ( i mean myself and Najla first) moving back to KL..Najla's abah will menyusul kemudian...with the letter of instruction from my company to be relocate to KL my hope he will get a place soon or we probably will ask somebody to assist nanti utk cepatkan proses..moga dipermudahkan oleh ALLAH..come January 2009 we plan to send Najla to Smart Reader school/any taska yg teaches English since she will be already 3 years old by then and if possible we wanted her to talk and master english language pulak,insyaallah..

Regarding where we are going to stay,well in the moment sementara Shahrir tak pindah lagi will be staying at TTDI..once everything settle we will move to our cosy new home in Denai Alam....at last duduk rumah sendiri..although kena travel sikit from Shah Alam to B.Utama nanti i don't mind as it will be my permenant home..no more pindah-pindah angkat-angkat barang..

Mum and Dad also had decided to move to Denai Alam too next to our house ( which is Adi's house)..the house in TTDI nanti mum wanted to rent it out so that the RM dapat can be use for other purpose yg utamanya to pay the bank loan laa for the denai alam house..with our current situation yes we really have to save alot of RM and use all the opportunities yg ada..so in a way good juga mum and dad pindah sama, we can look after them in case of any emergency

Well semoga semuanya berjalan lancar..insyaallah..we are praying hard for it..

Hrmmmm Should we???

Mum and dad had gone back to TTDI yesterday..they spend 1 week here...kira alhamdulillah ok laa..dapat laa rehat2 kat sini although they come over due to dad ada lift inspection kat penang..

Dad came on Sunday...Monday dapat laa rest one day..so takde pergi mana pun..just rehat relax -relax kat rumah sahaja...Tuesday morning dad pergi inspection somewhere in Penang...itupun he did not drive..his friend pick him up at 9.00am..inspection should be till evening but by noon he already back home to our house..ingatkan inspection habis awal but rupanya dia sakit dada and asyik pegang dada...he had call Adi earlier to get a guarantee letter from TUDM in case he has to be admited to the hospital..

Dad was really tired time too..so ask him to rest kat bawah ..have to quickly tidurkan Najla upstairs since she likes to kacau her atuk..come night after maghrib dad still rasa sakit dada...he walk up the stairs..thake his BP still high at 160/106..ask him to rest dulu before ambil BP since dia penat naik tangga..so after three reading BP dah start turun but still on the higher side above 140..

Shahrir pursue dad to go to the hospital... call Adi to get the Guarantee Letter..Adi came over and deliver..come 9.30pm Shahrir drove dad to Hosp Seberang Jaya since he is confy to go there instead of Hosp Bukit Mertajam...bring along some baju incase kena overnight...sampai A&E kena rest,check darah,bla..bla..bla... Lama gile procedure till 2.00am!!! ( bayangkan almost 5 hours kt A&E Hosp Seberang Jaya,govt hosp still the same tak berubah.if u know what i meant) ...ALHAMDULILLAH he is Ok..his Blood result pun ok..Dad ingat kena tahan tapi yg jadi masalahnya kat sana semua katil FULL,ICU FULL 1st class full, Wad biasa full....ada kaa dia kata kalau nak gaks maybe kena transit kat mana-mana dulu mcm dkt dpn bilik mayat kaaa ...Bangang tul depa,gile ke apa...nak buat lawak lakss!!!!#$%^,maknanya kesian laa kalau betul-betul sape-sape ada emergency mcm accident ka,etc mmg tak ada tempat langsung utk depa kat Hosp Seberang Jaya..since dad tak ada apa boleh balik laaa..
alhamdulillah BP pun ok dr just gave medicine aje..

Dad did mention to us nasib baik he is here in penang..at least we and Adi can assist..if he is in TTDI alone with mum he said tatau nak buat apa and nobody to look after them since Shat takde kat KL buat masa nie..since both of them also dah reach 60++ of course for us here we worry much..

Hrmmm perhaps we should move back to KL since my MIL kat sini we all tak risau dah..Shahrir also agree to that since all his siblings dah balik cari kerja di sini except for Alang in Sabah and Eg still studying in Shah Alam..Alang also had applied to be transfer back to Semenanjung and kalau dapat nak posting area Baling/ Grik..
i don;t have a problem being transfer to Jusco KL and they also had already inform that there is vacancy in Wellness Pharmacy Jusco OU (the best choice) and also MAxValue Kota Kemuning Shah Alam

but in the other way it is quite difficult for my dearest hubby to transfer..if possible i really don't want to go thru the hassle where we have to wait and wait for the approval to be transfer and duduk berjauhan again and what we know dari dulu lagi in Selangor itself especially area Shah Alam and kawasan yg sewaktu dengannya ( if we wanted to stay at our cosy home in Denai alam that is 100% ready with all the cabinets etc cuma tunggu masa aje nak duduk )there is NO more school yang ada KEKOSONGAN utk GURU( pelik betul takde kosong sedangkan banyak sekolah yg still takda cikgu...!@#$%% )

we have to really -really think about it..and we have to see how..actually 4 me moving back to KL for good also OK since mum and dad tinggal berdua aje..at least either Adi or me ada kat KL we can always take care and visit mum and dad...

i also feel much safer that here in Permatang Pauh as when i kept thinking about my kes ragut jadi mcm unsafe nak duduk sini..now kena ambil really -really extra precaution tgk kiri kanan before step in and out of the car and also have to ask Shahrir to teman us ( my SIL and also me) at the gate every morning masa nak pergi kerja to ensure that betul-betul selamat..


Hrmmmm now we have to think...think..think..and our doa moga ALLAH permudahkannya as ALLAH knows what best for us..

5th Raya Activity : Alor Setar

today our plan is beraya in Alor Setar to visit saudara mara sebelah Shahrir.. we plan to convoi together with my inlaws and uncle from SP..last minute we change the plan bawa satu kereta aje laa since my youngest Bro in law Asyraf dah start sekolah dan my sis in law Ina kerja pulak..so no point bawa 2 kereta kalau penumpang tak ramai..rugi duit minyak and tol aje..

bertolak ke Alor Star around 1.30pm from sungai petani..since highway jem we all guna jalan dalam via bedong exit kat Gurun..then we headed up to Alor Setar..memandangkan semua dah lapar plan nak cari kedai makan dulu..semua cadang nak makan kat ada one shop di Mentaloon yg jadi favourite arwah ayah dulu sbb lauk dia banyak n seda...ended up that kedai makan still tutup cuma ada 1 aje yg buka yg mempunyai nama hampir sama ngan kedai makan yg 1st tue..no choice laa sbb perut dh lapa sangat..met Farid Kamil there together with his mom i guess..tak laa hensem sgt,hihihi..:-PPP

After makan plan singgah the famous pekan rabu..kalau tak mai alor setar tak singgah pekan rabu rugi laaa..lagipun plan to buy some snacks like dodol (mmg sedap),kuih siput,kuih loyang dsb utk send ke Shatirah..After dah membeli belah di Pekan Rabu baru laa nak ke rumah uncle -uncle in Alor Setar...Ended up semuanya tak ada rumah...hahaha..so kitorang pergi Alor Setar tak dapatlaa nak beraya kira bershopping ajelaa...:-PPPPP

anyway my MIL and my Uncle who follow us nak melawat rumah lama tempat mereka tinggal dan dibesarkan ( My MIL was born and dibesarkan di Alor Star) ..the house was located at Jalan Limbung Kapal..sowe went there..di sana ada juga one of Shahrir's sedara yg tinggal betul2 sebelah rumah..so beraya rumah dia laa sekali..mmg meninggalkan nostalgia betul bila tgk rumah lama tsb.. it belongs to Shahrir arwah grandparents( My MIL parents) ..




tempat ini laa Abah slalu kopek nyok


The house mmg besar..skrg takda org duduk kira terbiar ajelaa..cuma saudara depan rumah tu tlg tgk2kan ajelaa..Shahrir excitedly cerita tentang zaman kanak kanak mereka bersama all the cousins(my MIL ada ramai adik beradik around 11 of them..so u can imagine Shahrir also had lots of cousins like myself) how they had a great time main bunga api, masak ketupat dsb..it reminds me juga regarding Arwah Atuk house kat Segamat..yeahhh definately had a great time masa zaman kanak -kanak dahulu terutama bila ramai -ramai berkumpul pada hari Raya..





After spending time there around 20 minutes we headed home..Mum and dad pun call kata dah sampai kt BM..so we had to rush back home..the journey home quite smooth jugalaa since ramai dah mula balik KL.. Najla paling excitedlaa jumpa atuk and nenek dia..mum bawa mcm -mcm jugalaa ....antaranya Kak ri punya cheesecake...time nie laa nak "belasah" cukup-cukup...heheheh...credits to Kak Ri..mmg sedap...;-)))


All the dodol, kuih muih dsb yang nak send to Shatirah



Kak Ri famous cheesecake...sedaaaaaaapppp


lagi 2 hari aje nak cuti...Rabu dah start kerja balik...tomorrow plan is nak kena pergi bank bayar all the bills and buat new ATM cards...sbb kena ragut punya pasal ( harap-harap the peragut will BURN IN HELL) mmg benci betullaa coz its lots of trouble nak buat everything balik..

4th Raya event : Engagement

Today we went down to Parit Buntar, Perak untuk menyertai Rombongan ke Majlis Pertunangan Anak Kak Zulia ( Fadli)..Mummy, daddy, pak karim and Mak pon suppose to join but due to Pak Karim health reason they decided to cancel their trip to the north..so we went there as wakil for Mummy and daddy..

we started our journey from BM around 12pm...mula plan nak join mereka convoi from Bukit Merah but since bukit merah is 30km down from Parit Buntar might as wll we all terus ke Parit Buntar instead of going down south then patah balik ke north..we will wait them at Parit Buntar kat rumah bakal tunang fadli..from highway exit Bukit Mertajam ke Juru it was jam sampai laa ke tol juru...mmg dah agak dahh jem teruk bcoz everybody rushing nak balik ke KL today since monday ramai dah start kerja semula..

anyway we arrived at Parit Buntar around 1.30pm..singgah dulu ke Pekan Parit Buntar..went for a quick lunch at KFC then terus mencari rumah tempat berlangsungnya majlis tersebut..it was not far from pekan Parit buntar..just 15 minutes drive..we waited for Kak Zulia and co near the house.

Around 3.30pm barulaa Kak Zulia and co sampai from Bukit Merah..Abg Ari was the spokesman for our side utk menyampaikan hajat mengikut adat org melayu..after exchanging a few words and come to an agreement,tempoh pertunangan is around 6 months to 1 year with mas kawin RM1100 hantaran 9k + sebentuk cincin..

selepas tamat majlis menyarung cincin, we had a short tea break sebelum bertukar -tukar dulang hantaran..we also receive a cenderahati daripada tuan rumah..


anyway to Fadli and Syarinawati, congratulations both of u on the engagement..

Hari Raya Aidilfitri Celebration

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to everyone..How was your celebration?..for us here we celebrate secara teramat sederhana since i was already takda duit after d incident...poor me..:-P

anyway we had a great one juga here in BM and SP.. Malam raya i was working till 10.30pm after that we pack our things and went off to SP to celebrate there..in SP there was only us and my two Brother in laws Asyraf and Eg..kali ini all my Sis in laws not around, my 1st sis in law Angah went back to her husband hometown in Malacca, my 2nd sis in law in Sabah tak balik while my 3rd sis in law kerja pagi raya..so rumah quite sunyi laa..

the guys went for sembahyang raya and after that they went to kubur arwah ayah...it has been almost two years dah arwah ayah meninggal..after that we all rush back to BM since i am working today on noon shift..1st time working on Hari Raya


pengalaman working time raya?..not bad..had a great time juga with my staff and all of us diberi kelonggaran today kena berpakaian hari raya...and today ramai juga customer datang shopping and window shopping..


najla happy dgn baju barunya hadiah dr aunty zera..thanx alot..



Theme baju raya kuning + gold






Kerja di hari raya...bergambar kenangan bersama my staff





Here wishing all of you SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI ..MOHON MAAF ANDAI ADA TERKASAR BAHASA TERSILAP KATA...


ikhlas dari kami sekeluarga di Permatang Pauh;

Traumatized and SCARED

Hari ini mencatatkan satu peristiwa buruk in my life.. i was a victim of snatch theft!!!..incident happens betul -betul infront of our house.. i was so traumatized and tergamam laa when the incident happens..mmg blur gile laa..

i was on my way to work at around 8.30am..i have already gone inside the car but never started the engine yet and not yet lock the car as usual time like 8.30am bulan -bulan puasa and nak dekat raya nobody was around laa kira sunyi laa area tue..suddenly from the end of the road ada 1 motorbike yg dinaiki oleh 2 guy berhenti betul -betul blkg but kereta and one guy dah siap turun dr motor dah selamba aje menuju ke passenger seat..i was so shocked laa ingatkan nak curi kereta waja kitorang bcoz that guy sooo cool mcm professional so i cepat -cepat keluar dr kereta without thinking bcoz kalau that guy bawa pistol or pisau tikam i will be history ..that guy manage to capai my wallet i was soooo takut and i pun jerit laa sekuat -kuat hati yang boleh and called shahrir dalam rumah..shahrir cepat -cepat lari keluar and naik bike utk kejar but tak sempat laa..they already gone no where..
ada neighbours yg dengar i jerit pun keluar dan tanya apasal apsal and i just show to those two guys yg dh blah dh..it is either a malay guy or indian or indon but i guess is malay tak nampak sgt coz mereka pakai full face helmet..if i was not frozen that time should capai the stering lock and knocked the guy off as the stering lock is next to me kat driver seat but i guess dah too panic and terkejut sangat tatau nak buat apa..or if i hidupkan enjin kereta should reverse the car and knocked them down..( tapi Nanti kena masuk lokap laks atas tuduhan membunuh laks kalau mereka mati..)

mmg traumatize betul but i am really thankfull to ALLAH that i am safe and tak cedera..the police officer that we met at a station shared an incident near Bandar Perda where 3 guys naik toyota vios pergi block 1 housewife car and dengan selamba went to the housewife car, push the lady out and took away her belongings..the lady cedera parah kat kepala becoz terhantuk..anak2 dia dlm kereta pun tergamam sampai blur tak leh ingat sape yg buat.. setiap yg berlaku ada hikmahnya..ujian dan dugaan dr ALLAH SWT.. who knows if i manage to get the wallet but cedera parah lagi teruk kan..

but loosing all the important document mmg menyusahkan laa..so no choice cepat -cepat call my collegue saying ada emergency, pergi buat police report,telefon bank utk freeze semua akaun yang ada ATM cards, cancelled all the credit cards and double check if ada transaction or not..nasib baik tak ada langsung..the ATM cards also tak ada transaction..

since today last day govt agency open cepat -cepat pergi buat IC and driving license..had to wait around 2 hours laa utk kt JPN utk siapkan IC temporary since byk kaunter dah tutup awal laa plak sebelum waktunya (biasalaa dh nama govt agencies..) ..manage to rush to JPJ Seberang Jaya to be the 2nd last person b4 counter close for Raya and siapkan my driving licence on time..

Am still traumatize and cannot drive as i kept thinking about the incident..i have to ask Shahrir to send me to work this week laa since kejadian tue asyik terbayang -bayang aje...it is because ia berlaku betul -betul depan rumah and i guess rumah pun bukan tempat selamat lagi..

semua yg berlaku ketentuannya..kena redha ajelaa..segala bala bencana yg ALLAH beri ada hikmahnya..redha semuanya dan all the items bukan milik kita... i just pray hard to ALLAH moga si pencuri tue akan binasa nanti or dapat balasan laa nanti..i guess this incident pasti akan buat kita lebih beringat..was thinking perhaps i will not bring anymore wallet just a few cards and also duit semua letak dalam poket..better safe than sorry..

my advice to all BERHATI-HATI KAY..nowdays PEOPLE ARE REALLY- REALLY CRAZY..just be caution utk elakkan the same incident..perhaps i need to learn martial art to increase my confident level cuma time not permits as the lesson is at night since i punya working hrs tak permit so i don't think i have a chance yet..harap 1 day dapat laa rezeki terpijak so that can be a stay at home mum or working as locum pharmacist aje not full time and do business from home,:-PPPPPPP...shahrir pun rasa terlampauuu geram sangat kalau dapat mmg kena lanyak laa dua ekor pencopet tue dgn silat dia..takpelaa dh nak jadi nak buat mcm ne, kalau ALLAH takdirkan jadi begitu akan tetap berlaku juga cuma redha ajelaa...banyak -banyak doa dan taubat pada ALLAH mungkin kejadian ini disebabkan kesilapan kita juga..

Early Wishes

Happy 1st Birthday ALIS Karmila

Alis turns ONE yesterday..HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALIS...hope you had a great one there...Hope you love the colourfull dress...:-)))






the Sweet girl turns 1...



Kek Alis



gambar -gambar ini dicilok dari Friendster mama Alis..hehehe


btw happy birthday to my Sis In Law Angah who celebrate her birthday yesterday too..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABAH..

Happy birthday abah 23rd September 2008...this year hadiah for abah is baju melayu 2 pasang ( baju sahaja) since hari raya nak dekat...:-))) and also baju pergi kerja ( from Atuk and Nenek)...

We celebrated Abah's birthday in KL by going shopping for Abah's clothes..we were in KL for a while for Abah to settle a few "family matters" things with the govt agencies..alhamdulillah semua settle, tinggal tunggu ajelaa..so after everything settle in the evening we went back to Penang..in Penang Tok masak nasi tomato for buka puasa...

to my dearest Abah..happy Birthday..moga panjang umur and murah rezeki

Raya Preparation

all of us will be celebrating Hari Raya insya'allah in 2 weeks time..alamak...cepatnya masa berlalu...our preparation for raya =not yet...seriously we have not prepare everything yet from baju raya to kuih raya...btw i will be working on the 1t and 2nd day of hari raya...no kidding, 1st time after 5 years working this is the first time i will be working on a festive season..selama nie dengar ajalaa dari surat khabar tv etc pengalaman org yang kena kerja di hari raya and this time i will experience it myself..

for me personally is a not a big deal working on festive season..it will be a great experience for me too..since this year we will be celebrating our hari raya first in SP so tak kisah laa..SP -Permatang Pauh is not that far...just 20 minutes away..i will only start my 5 days leave starting from the 3rd day of Raya..

Working this hari raya ada advantages tau in my current company..since i am not entitle for OT rate working on Public Holiday, i will get 4 days free annual leave( 2 day subsitute leave and 2 days unrecorded leave ) and also RM200 duit raya cash..( nie yg syok nie dapat dui raya free...hehehehe..:-PPP ) ..besides that adalaa juga dapat meal allowance for the festive season//kira alhamdulillah oklaa ..

this year since starting from 3rd hari raya mum and dad + Mak Pon+ Pak Karim insya'allah will be going up north for a family function, we will wait for them to come over to Penang... we might not able to beraya di KL since my cuti is only 5 days and School will be starting on 6th hari raya...tgklaa macam mana ada rezeki boleh laa balik kl round-round melawat saudara mara utk eratkan silaturrahim..

I'm a YEAR older..

Alhamdulillah... thank you for all the wishes send via sms..thank you and my doa moga sentiasa murah rezeki,dipanjangkan jodoh,dikurniakan -anak-anak yg soleh/solehah...dan sentiasa berada dlm bimbingan ALLAH SWT & tidak leka dgn rezeki pemberianNYA..

Thank you to Adi & Family for the lovely cake..Thank you Shatirah who sms me from UK.. ( hope she was having lots of fun there di negara orang...) did not have any celebration etc as i am working today..

Belajarlah hidup berdikari...

Receive Sms from a collegue of mine( this collegue satu tempat keje 5 yrs back)..SMS dia berbunyi mcm nie.."slam kak Yana, saya dah slamat pindah ke Seremban ikut hubby..tak larat laa nak ulang alik.."..yup tempat isteri mmg laa di samping suami...my collegue nie reminds me of our friendship semasa kerja hospital dulu..she was a diploma graduate student..keje keras nak kumpul duit untk mendirikan rumah tangga..lepas kawin dia pindah ke KJ dgn suami dia... dan ada rezeki dapat seorg anak...she rajin chit chatt with me saying that mmg kena belajar hidup berdikari after kawin and mmg agak sukar juga tapi kena biasakan...i agree with her...after dah kawin the best way is untuk duduk different home from your parents...tak kisah laa duk sebelah umah parents ke atau selang 2-3 rumah dari rumah your parents ( like one of my ex company bbraun collegue buat ) janji duduk asing dan hidup berdikari suami isteri..

berbalik kepada my collegue tadi dia cakap laa to me that hidup berdikari membolehkan dia belajar berjimat cermat and also lebih bertolak ansur dgn pasangannya.. i definately agree with her,when you live on your own you will definately learn how to do your family budget dan learn how to berjimat cermatttt...let say a combination of Shahrir and my salary we learn to live on our own..to built a family of our own...alhamdulillah we manage to survive

dr gaji yang didapati tue laa we have to really spend wisely to pay the housing rental,our denai alam home loan,our new ride loan, najla's nursery bill,our groceries,najla's pampers and milk,our insurance,all the bills ( air,api,astro) and also save some for rainy days...we really have to manage it very -very welll

ada 1 hari tue borak -borak with one old lady nie...kesian dia laa dia merungut juga laa pasal anak dia...not merungut apa..dia cuma nak luahkan perasaan aje...dia kata laa ingatkah lepas bersara leh relax tapi tak dapat laaa plaks...anak suh jaga cucu...huhuhuh..i pity her juga laa sbb dia kata anak dia dia keje biasa -biasa ajelaa..menantu pun sama then tetiap tahun anak depa makin bertambah..mak juga laa nak kena jaga..kesian laaa mak bukannya makin muda tapi makin berusia....badan pun tak kuat lagi....suh duk umah lain anak dia tak mahu laks..mcm -mcm alasan dia kasi,tak cukup duit laa..susah laa dsb...tapi yang hairannya baju anak sume dibelinya branded -branded....kiko laaa...poney laaa...anakku junior laaa ( these baju cost around RM40 ++ above per piece...gila punya membazirrr nak bergaya punya pasal...i will never pamper my anak with all the branded stuff, penat cari duit nak membazir macam nie)yang jenama cokia sket tak main laaa...huhuhuh...apalaa punya orangggggg..macam nie pun ada..


kesian laa kat makkk diaaaaa ..takkan laaa dah tua pun kena "berkorban" laks utk anak lagi..dah laa kecik mak juga yg berkorban..Mmg anak rezeki ALLAH kasi...tak kisah laa berapa anak that u have but at least be considerate laa to your parents...tetiap tahun beranak kasi mak jaga...alasan save duit..susah dsb....setiap anak ALLAH tentukan rezekinya but at least kena laa berusaha utk tambahkan pendapatan keluarga sendiri kalau anak makin bertambahhh....tak kan duk tadah tangan berdoa berharap aje pada MIRACLE...


kesimpulannya Belajarlahhh hidup berdikari dengan belajar hidup SENDIRI ...then you will know apa itu erti " pengorbarnan" and how hard is it to live...at least u will APPRECIATE IT BETTER!!!

BON VOYAGE..

Tonite Shatirah will be leaving to UK...from us here we would like to say..

- SELAMAT JALAN
- JAGA DIRI BAIK -BAIK DI PERANTAUAN
- STADY RAJIN -RAJIN K,,JUST FOR 1 YEAR...U CAN DO IT.
- JANGAN LUPA DIRI SEBAGAI SEORANG MUSLIM, TUTUP AURAT WALAUPUN DIPERANTAUAN..
ALLAH ADA DI MANA -MANA ...
- JANGAN TINGGALKAN SOLAT K
- BELAJAR HIDUP BERDIKARI..INSYAALLAH YOU CAN DO IT..


Definately we will going to miss you..Take care

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday Uncle Adi...Moga panjang umur,murah rezeki dan sentiasa beroleh kerahmatan dan keredhaan ALLAH SWT..


some of the pictures we took together when we went to Butterworth to hand over the cake...



Adli excited tiup lilin sampai tersembur air liur..hihihi




uncle adi kata kat adli, kasi chance najla tiup laks..



masa utk potong kek laa..