Receive Sms from a collegue of mine( this collegue satu tempat keje 5 yrs back)..SMS dia berbunyi mcm nie.."slam kak Yana, saya dah slamat pindah ke Seremban ikut hubby..tak larat laa nak ulang alik.."..yup tempat isteri mmg laa di samping suami...my collegue nie reminds me of our friendship semasa kerja hospital dulu..she was a diploma graduate student..keje keras nak kumpul duit untk mendirikan rumah tangga..lepas kawin dia pindah ke KJ dgn suami dia... dan ada rezeki dapat seorg anak...she rajin chit chatt with me saying that mmg kena belajar hidup berdikari after kawin and mmg agak sukar juga tapi kena biasakan...i agree with her...after dah kawin the best way is untuk duduk different home from your parents...tak kisah laa duk sebelah umah parents ke atau selang 2-3 rumah dari rumah your parents ( like one of my ex company bbraun collegue buat ) janji duduk asing dan hidup berdikari suami isteri..
berbalik kepada my collegue tadi dia cakap laa to me that hidup berdikari membolehkan dia belajar berjimat cermat and also lebih bertolak ansur dgn pasangannya.. i definately agree with her,when you live on your own you will definately learn how to do your family budget dan learn how to berjimat cermatttt...let say a combination of Shahrir and my salary we learn to live on our own..to built a family of our own...alhamdulillah we manage to survive
dr gaji yang didapati tue laa we have to really spend wisely to pay the housing rental,our denai alam home loan,our new ride loan, najla's nursery bill,our groceries,najla's pampers and milk,our insurance,all the bills ( air,api,astro) and also save some for rainy days...we really have to manage it very -very welll
ada 1 hari tue borak -borak with one old lady nie...kesian dia laa dia merungut juga laa pasal anak dia...not merungut apa..dia cuma nak luahkan perasaan aje...dia kata laa ingatkah lepas bersara leh relax tapi tak dapat laaa plaks...anak suh jaga cucu...huhuhuh..i pity her juga laa sbb dia kata anak dia dia keje biasa -biasa ajelaa..menantu pun sama then tetiap tahun anak depa makin bertambah..mak juga laa nak kena jaga..kesian laaa mak bukannya makin muda tapi makin berusia....badan pun tak kuat lagi....suh duk umah lain anak dia tak mahu laks..mcm -mcm alasan dia kasi,tak cukup duit laa..susah laa dsb...tapi yang hairannya baju anak sume dibelinya branded -branded....kiko laaa...poney laaa...anakku junior laaa ( these baju cost around RM40 ++ above per piece...gila punya membazirrr nak bergaya punya pasal...i will never pamper my anak with all the branded stuff, penat cari duit nak membazir macam nie)yang jenama cokia sket tak main laaa...huhuhuh...apalaa punya orangggggg..macam nie pun ada..
kesian laa kat makkk diaaaaa ..takkan laaa dah tua pun kena "berkorban" laks utk anak lagi..dah laa kecik mak juga yg berkorban..Mmg anak rezeki ALLAH kasi...tak kisah laa berapa anak that u have but at least be considerate laa to your parents...tetiap tahun beranak kasi mak jaga...alasan save duit..susah dsb....setiap anak ALLAH tentukan rezekinya but at least kena laa berusaha utk tambahkan pendapatan keluarga sendiri kalau anak makin bertambahhh....tak kan duk tadah tangan berdoa berharap aje pada MIRACLE...
kesimpulannya Belajarlahhh hidup berdikari dengan belajar hidup SENDIRI ...then you will know apa itu erti " pengorbarnan" and how hard is it to live...at least u will APPRECIATE IT BETTER!!!
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