27.12

27th December is ayah's ( My FIL ) birthday.. If Ayah was here today he will be 61 years old.. beruntunglaa untuk mereka yg masih mempunyai ayah or ayah mertua as both of us ( my husband and i ) had lost both..

   I had not much memories about ayah as i only know him for about a year ++ ... i married his eldest son ( my dearest husband ) in 2004 and after marriage only i manage to know him much better or talk to him often.. i got to know what 's his faviurite food, what's his favourite drink etc and alhamdulillah we manage to bring ayah to denai alam to show him our future home a few months before he passed away..

   Ayah seorang yang tegas.. he works as an ex Supervisor for PLUS.. barely  a few days before his retirement  in 2003 ayah suffered a heart problem ..he had to underwent a stent ( balloon ) procedure as there is blockage in the heart..alhamdulillah he was ok after that and our wedding in 2004 was proceed smoothly in KL and Sg Petani..

  in 2005,rezeki ayah and mak dapat panggilan haji..alhamdulillah he was so happy..although he was not really feeling well but he manage to proceed with the haj..

 2006 was the upmost challenging year.. exactly one month after ayah nikahkan her eldest daughter ( my eldest SIL ) on 1st July 2006 ayah suffered a massive stroke where he collapsed in our Sg Petani home.. He was taken to Sg Petani Hospital and there the nightmare begins..no kemudahan etc where he had to be transferred here and there etc.. its a suffer and quite frustating as he was already in a coma but yet they take him easily and one Medical Officer (MO) siap boleh cakap biarlaa nanti dia akan heal sendiri..A stupid word from a person who called himself a doctor ..and as thought we are so stupid and does not know anything bout stroke

 and 19 days after at around 3.00am ayah passed away peacefully as a result of massive brain hemmorage ( pendarahan seluruh otak) due to stroke .. and my personal opinion if he had received a better treatment he would have been treated better..or at least we try first ...hubby had write an official complaint to the minister of health, DG health regaarding the MO and hospital and from what he received a reply the MO was transferred elsewhere..

   Ayah seolah -olah tahu yang dia nak pergi ..as he suddenly say to us that he wants to achieve only  a few things  iaitu tengok anak perempuan sulung dia kahwin (achieved in 2006)  , pergi haji ( achieved in end 2005)  and timang 1st cucu ( achieved in End 2005) and after that he wanted to rest in peace..and sebaik sahaja dia achieve all Ayah kembali padaNYA..innalillahi wainna ilaihi rajiun..